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writes:a couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had an argument about some girls on his myspace well he decided to ignore me for the rest of that night. We talked and made good the next day, but two days later his daughters mom came by just to let me know that she had spent the night that night, she repeated some of my texts to him and claimed they had sex, she even wrote on some pads i had there. That day she came over i had also found her hair on him, he was very secretive on the phone with her and she also showed me some texts he had sent her the week before saying things like send me a pic of ur tits please... He claims that nothing happened she came to use his computer they argued, he left for a while and came back and found her sleeping, he offered his bed and went to the kids room... He is telling me is so in love with me and i do love him i just dont know what to do... And i really feel that they had sex... Any advice on what to do or even how to get him to tell me if they really did have sex??
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reader, 1stimenwin +, writes (14 August 2010):
Chances are if he had sex with her he wont admitt it. If you think he had sex, and you know him, he probobly did. I have cheated on women in the past and that is exactly how i acted. Secretive with my phone, texting then deleting, acting like it was crazy of you to think i did it. About the time my girlfriend started getting suspicious was about when i started cheating. Think about it, does his story really make sense on why she came over. I personally dont send texts to women asking for nude pics unless i would sleep with them given the chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni did look at his phone... Which idk even how to use it lol... And it is a matter if they had sex... I want to know i understand ppl do stupid things n can make a mistake as long as its not repetively im good... But just as well i want the complete truth. I still ask him questions all the time just randomly he seems pretty consistant on the fact they didnt have sex... She has done this to another girl previously... I just dont get y he is dumb enough to allow her sabotage this... And is it honestly possible for any man to not have sex with his ex in this situation...
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 I think the matter of if they had sex or not is irrelevant. You have posted here because you don't trust him. Without trust there is no relationship. The fact that his ex told you that she was sleeping with him is pretty damning, but she is not the enemy here. You should see her as some tragic case who is willing to sleep with her ex and send him dirty pictures after their relationship fell apart, while he is dating another girl (i.e. she has no self respect). The problem is your boyfriend - you cannot know the truth for sure but you obviously don't trust him so don't drive yourself crazy over a man who just isn't worth it! There are plenty of uncomplicated, honest men out there who will treat you nicely...if you let them.
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