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writes:Im 14 years old and i really really like this boy, he's 17.He tells me he likes me to but i dont know weather to believe him or not, im sure he's lied to me before but he says he hasnt.All my friends say to give him a chance but im still at school and doing my gcse's and he sits around on our estate all day getting into trouble most of the time.Im really stuck on what to do, please give me some advice :( Reply to this Question
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reader, oliviaaa +, writes (12 August 2010):
oliviaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question I think the reason my friends say give him a chance is because the read/hear all the sweetalk, he's an older boy and knows what to say so i doubt they would understand that sometimes boys say it to get one thing, and i don't know if he just wants that or not.
We liked eachother the first time we met, got on really well, we just clicked- then he got a girlfriend.
We stopped speaking yet i still liked him?
It must be something strong, i always go back to him so to answer your question i dont think he has done anything to desevrve it, should he have?
I know i need to concentrate but while im on summer i think it's best i sort it out now because it will be running on my mind then.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Listen to your gut, not your friends. Even though you're young, your instincts are pretty good here: he sounds lazy, not just a "bad boy".
Why do your friends want you to give him a chance anyway? Why has he earned a chance from you?
You said you "really really" like him--for what reasons?
I ask because love is not "just a feeling", I think; if it's a healthy, solid love it usually has reasons behind it that you can describe, unlike addicted, unhealthy love (or lust).
You sound like a hardworking, levelheaded girl who already has her priorities in order. Don't throw that away!
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (11 August 2010):
 You need to really put all your attention on passing your GCSE's. If you think this boy has lied to you before, and he sits around the estate getting into trouble, just avoid him........expect you'll find another boy you like better and who you have more in common with, eventually......
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