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*JGumm
writes: I'm in a 6 month relationship with a girl who i'm crazy about... however the way our relationship runs i don't like a single bit. See she has school in the mornings on weekdays and for some reason don't want to work in seeing me after school, and the weekends are hit and miss with me feeling like i'm getting the chance to see her only because there isn't anything else to do (although i don't know if this is the case), and when we are together she don't make much conversation (i normally do most of the talking and she mainly answers my questions will little effort in setting up something for me to reply to) and showing any affection is almost non existent (we don't kiss very often, hugs are rare, i just don't know why)... see things were this way early in the relationship but i though after some time she would warm up to me and things would be "normal". But after 6 months it's not normal, or cute, anymore... i have tried talking to her about it and it never really changes anything... am i crazy or does this not sound right? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Cloverfield +, writes (11 August 2010):
Nope.... you're right, that doesnt sound at all right to me.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (11 August 2010):
It sounds like she is going off you or getting bored with the relationship. For it to work there has to be communication from both sides and contact if not in person at least by phone or email.
Try breaking it off for a while, if she doesnt contact you after a few weeks then move yourself on and find someone who appreciates you more.
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