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30-35,
*alkyrie
writes:Big problem! See my other questions to get the full story! I am so miserable right now and it is all my fault! After seeing this guy I talked about 3 times, the guilt has hit me hard. I cannot live with what I have done and decided it was best to break it off with my partner. I tried to break up last night but he didn't take it well at all. He told me how he gave up everything for me and how I am the only thing good in his life and I am the reason he gets out of bed everymorning to go to work! I feel terrible! I have broken this poor mans heart so badly and he didn't deserve this at all! He deserves so much better than me but he loves me so much (more than I realized) and now I have torn him apart and I can't live with myself! I can't believe I have done this to such a sweet, kind and loving man, i never ever thought i would, but I knew the consequences and I did it anyway! I'm an awful person! Now the other guy in my life is playing up and I feel totally to blame and all alone! My bfs parents are going to hate me and everyone I know will be so ashamed! What can I do? I know I have to face what I have done but I feel so bad for him and I feel like I have ruined his life! Now either way I go, if i stay with him it will not work, if I leave him it will be painful and drawn out. What do I do??? I am hurting so bad but feel I don't have the right to feel sad because it's all my fault and I deserve everything bad that comes my way! :,( Reply to this Question
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (11 August 2010):
Just tell the truth and move on..you've done, whatever you have done, I guess you didn't feel too guilty when you were doing it, because you went ahead and did it anyway. You say if you stay together it won't work..it seems you already made up your mind. Don't play games, you maybe "hurting" but I think part of your ego likes the fact you have two guys on the go. Tell your "ex"boyfriend the truth on move on, perhaps he'll find a girlfriend worthy enough of his love and trust.
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