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writes:I'm a classic hopeless romantic. And it's the classic case of unrequited love. And to make a long story short, I was rejected by a girl who I thought was the world.I've tried moving on with my life, like any sensible person. There's a girl that I am interested in right now, but that's not going to go anywhere. I haven't tried asking her out but I just know that if the first girl did'nt want me, then this girl won't either.And to had fuel to the flames, the girl who is the object of my first heartbreak I just learned that she got married, to the guy she passed me up for. And now, I just don't want to feel. I've fallen back into depression, over her. How do I cope with this unrequited love? Reply to this Question
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reader, theaboo +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Focus your energy elsewhere! Don't spend too much time alone, rely on friends to hang out with you and keep your mind off it it.. or to talk about it when you need to. Try picking up something new that doesn't remind you of her.. Like if she was super athletic, start a novel series.. If she was a nerd, join a local jogging club. Get out of your comfort zone so you aren't so focused on her. Plus, you're bound to meet someone completely different and new if you put yourself in an unfamiliar situation :)
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