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writes:please helpfreshman year i've moved to a new house new school and a new location.when school began i didnt know much people so i was always with the closest friend that i met.i met a friend that was a grade higher then me and the whole school years i've been with her and her group.last year she graduated and this year i am going to be a senior and i dont know anyone there.the only people i knew was her and her 2 friends everyone else was a hi and bye. i'm anti social so i've never been at a party or hung out with friends outside of school.i do have this one friend that goes to the same school but she doesnt talk to me much because she got a job and thinks shes better then everyone around her.this will be my senior year and i'm tired of being invisible i want to make a senior year unforgettable and i want people to remember me as that fun girl not a shy girl that never spoke to anyone.how do i make this happen? please help me. how do i become popular in a short part of time.who do i hang out with at lunch? please help me.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Good luck!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks ..wish me luck school starts tomorrow :(
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 there are a lotof worse things to be remembered as ;) as long as you remember yourself without regrets, you'll be fine. Be yourself and don't try to be someone you're not. Try to be more open, more happy, more active and whatever else you wanna be. Let people in. Let people get to know you. The right people will let you in their lives too. It's easy to make this happen. Slowly start conversations with people, lots of different people and build up from there. The ones you really click with will start hanging out with you. Just choose your friends carefully. Only surround yourself with good people! xx :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Hi!!!
Well, I am shy as well. I will be a sophomore in college and it is not easy to meet people sometimes. However, you should dare to go to parties and just approach people and start a conversation. You might feel weird and uncomfortable at the beginning but you will be getting better at it with practice. You should talk to students in your classes and stuff like that.
On the other hands, I believe that you should learn to love yourself by who you are and not who you want to be. You can always make changes but LOVE yourself first. However, it is GRRRRREAT that you are thinking about being more social.
Ouuu also, you should join clubs!! at least a couple of them will be a fantastic way for you to meet people!!
Be strong and forget what others might say about you!! Ok??
Speak UP!!!
Best Wishes!!!
-Karmen
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reader, xAx +, writes (11 August 2010):
You said that you're not much of a party girl, well i think that if you change this, you'll be who you want to be. I think that you should try to find out if your older friends are friends with people in your year. Maybe you could ask them to host a party and invite people in your year. Or even, you host a party and just invite people you know and just random people from your year.
You need to start talk to people more in school. If you have someone you like sat next to you in a lesson, talk to them more, maybe ask them if they want have a homework session with you/become revision buddies. Invite people to spend the night at yours.
I always find that complimenting girls is a easy way to make people like you.
Hope this helps x
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