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*llybaby
writes:Im 16 and my boyfriends trying to get me to reach orgasm . I've got the peeing sensation , apperently i need to let go as if im going to pee , but what if i actually do ? and what are the signs of an orgasim ,can people pee while having sex ? people say its really hard for a young women to reach orgasim ,? i need some answers .
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Babe you'll know I have had sex loads of times and seriously you never know when you gunna have an orgasm it just happens and when it does it feels soo good and you'll enjoy it I first had an orgasm when I was on my own cuz I didn't know how to get one and when I did I told my boyfriend what to do an he did it and I had a orgasm ;) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Ussually you don't feel like you want to pee when you orgazm. I think he is pressing too hard on a wrong button. Why don't you do it yourself to reach orgazm, you will know how it feels, and then may be you can tell your boyfriend how to do it.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 A woman can be more specific, but all I can say is: Once you have an orgasm.... YOU WILL KNOW.
(there's no mistaking it)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Asking what are the signs that you are having an orgasm is like asking what are the signs of being hit by a bus. There are no signs, it just hits you. Same thing with the big O. When you reach it, trust me, you'll know.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Yes it hard for a young woman to reach an orgasm for many reasons.
- If you feel like you have to go pee, well, you simple hold back.
- Women needs more stimulation, and mental readiness that guys.
- Fear of what it could feel like, and more.
The peeing part is right. Get a towel, and put it under you. You will not pee, but it will help you relax in the thought of the towel will catch and soak up the pee.
You can not pee and orgasm at the same time, different muscle control. A G-spot orgasm(the big "O") may look like pee, but it's not.
Then when the feeling comes, let it go.
Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): i once heard that you just need to relax and sometimes u do pee but u just need to feel confertable with yourself and make sure you boyfriend is comfertable too.
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reader, razorwire +, writes (11 August 2010):
first off their is many levels of orgasms for females second when you have an orgasm YOU'LL KNOW. it sounds like your boyfriend is trying to make you "squirt" wich is the most intense orgasm a female can have. when you feel like you have to pee let go. a liquid will come out but its not pee and your body will squirm uncontrollably.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Your not going to pee your gonna cum. Don't stop. If your embarrased in front of your boyfriend you need to make yourself cum while your alone. Then you'll know.
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