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BJ by a stranger in a bar. Why?

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Question - (11 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

PleAse help me wrap my head around this. I was at a bar. Girl keeps staring at me. I approach. We get to talkin. I can tell she wants me to kiss her, so I do. We start making out. She says, " I have to go to the bathroom, wanna follow me?". Nor sure what this means, but I say sure.

By the restrooms she grabs my hand, leads me into the men's room, into a stall. We start going at it, her top comes down. A few minutes of that and she sits down on the toilet Unzips my pants, and gives me a BJ. I even came in her mouth and she swallowed.

Then she left. No xchange of numbers. No pretending to want any future contact

What in the world would make a girl do something like this? She didn't even "get off" only me. I've never had anything like this happen to me before. Have any of you? What is the mindset that would make a girl WANT to do this? She was very pretty and seemed like a sweet girl. I'm sure she could have men's interest in much more normal ways

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

Sorry Dude but i'm going with the transvestite answer.My best suggestion is leave it as it is. No more questions about it , if it was good just keep beliving it was a woman and move on.I probaly would done the same thing you did.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010):

Oops. My guess is that it was not a woman, perhaps a transvestite or cross dresser. The number of women that will do this is very, very, very, small unless they are hookers. If she did not ask for money or drugs you were with a guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

Can't say it's something I'd EVER do personally and can't say it's something many women would do either. But there are people (obviously as you've experience) that will do stuff like that.

The only thing I can say is it's just what she likes/what she's into. You say she never got off, but she most likely did. Not physically, but she must do this often and love the fact she's doing it to a total stranger/finds it exciting, etc.

But yeah, alright for you though right? Probably something you'll never experience again. Great story to tell your guy friends if you ask me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010):

I had an experience like this once. I met a girl at a party. Within 15 minutes or so we started making out in a back room, with her sitting on a counter. Without any prompting from me, she pulled her panties off (she was wearing a skirt, unbuttoned my pants, and pulled me into her. After we were done, she laughed and said, "see ya!". I was speechless. I'm pretty sure my mouth was just left hanging open. I never saw her again.

Now that I think of it, I harbor the same questions as you. WTF????

It made me wonder, do all girls have this dark side? Did my current partner do stuff like this? I certainly hope not! True, I was a willing, if somewhat dazed and confused participant. But this was my plan. I have never thought of doing such a thing. Rather, someone did it TO me.

It was AWESOME!

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

dirtball agony auntMaybe that's her thing. People like all sorts of stuff, and you likely found hers. Sounds like an experience you won't soon forget.

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