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How much do you communicate when your not together?

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Question - (11 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi there,

if you were in a long distance relationship (about 2 hours away from eachother) how much communication would you expect from the other person?

Would you expect to talk everyday?Phone, texts, emails etc...or would you expect communication throughout the day?

Thanks for your help!

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (12 August 2010):

Oh i would love if he called me every night before bed time to tell me good night! now no i don't want him calling me 4 times a day i wouldn't get anything done?

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A female reader, kenty139 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2010):

kenty139 agony auntHi,

me and my boyfriend live about an hour away, and we text non stop and phone a lot of the time, we have been together a year and a half, and its just a daily routine to do.. its hard not to text him.

You should just text him and tell him about your day, and let him tell you his day, and how hes doing and that.

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A female reader, JennyBuckwell United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2010):

JennyBuckwell agony auntI was in a long distance relationship for a year with my bf being in new york and me in london and we talked all day every day. This is one of the worst things u can do with long distance relationships yet the easiest trap to fall ino (especially with technology such as bbm, facebook etc). The key is to arrange a time to talk properly once a day, preferably in the evening so you can discuss your day with each other and when your not busy with your daily priorities. Talking too much only leads to arguments - take it from me and ul find that u never have one proper length chat.

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A female reader, Lotsalove. United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

Lotsalove. agony auntI'm in a long distance relationship between the USA and the UK. We've been together for 15 months. I believe you have to talk everyday, just like you would if they lived in the same town as you. Me and my boyfriend talk every day, most of the day, considering we are 8 hours apart I think we do really well. For example my boyfriend wakes up at 6am, which is 2pm in the UK, so I always make sure i call him at this time. Everyday without fail. We mostly talk via private messages on facebook or email because texts and calls are too expensive. Also, we use skype, because its so cheap to call and video chat.

If we can keep the effort to make communication like this when we're thousands of miles apart, you should be able to only being 2 hours away! The effort really does go a long way.

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