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writes:okay so my ex and i have 3 kids together and a 6 year history. we split a year ago and ever since i dated two guys and he has dated two girls but in the mean time we have still been sleeping together... its crazy but now i know i actually want him back and our "family" but he still keeps going to this other girl that resembles me in no way. i actually think she looks like a kid and i know for fact that she is not old enough to drink.... but anyway i am super jealous. i want to know why he plays both of us and why he tells me he hates me and why he says mean things about my 'no ass and my stretch marks and really hurtful things and he also says that I am crazy....I need advise so please help me out here because i do love the guy.. thank you
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (12 August 2010):
What is there to love about the jerk! he calls you those names because he can. you allow it by still loving him after the hurtful things he says to you he is so having fun! w/ treating you like a piece of *hit and your jealous of the other woman? i would be glad hes w/ someone else and not me anymore. they only respect and love what you give them to love and respect? im sorry im not trying to come off rude i feel bad that you are going through this, but you have got to put your foot down some time. and know it isn't right for anyone to treat you like that. you are a woman and the mother of his children! no way in hell would i tolerate it anymore. and i would not let my kids see their father disrespecting me he wouldn't be doing it in the first place. get yourself respect back and kick his dumb *ss to the curb!!!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 Why do you want to be with him when he treats you with no respect? I say ditch him once and for all and move on he's a tosser.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (12 August 2010):
 What kind of environment are you raising your kids in? Here you are broken up with their father and basically still letting him use you for sex and come and go between you and another woman.You are accepting his verbal abuse, yes that is what name calling is, verbal abuse. What kind of role model do you want to be for your kids.What is there to possibly love about this man who says mean things to you, belittles you, humiliates you and leaves you and is using you?This isn't healthy for you or for your kids. Please get some counseling/therapy to figure out why you are willing to stay in a relationship that is toxic to you and may end up dangerous to you and your children. The worst thing you could do is to take this man back and live a Jerry Springer life....if he isn't willing to get help and improve and grow into a mature man, then you don't want him, things like this just have a way of getting worse with time.Put your kids first, be a Mom and take care of yourself by making better choices in men, or better yet, don't date at all for awhile until you can figure out why your self esteem is so low that you are willing to accept mistreatment...and call that LOVE.
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