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female
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30-35,
*ly09
writes:So i've been with my boyfriend on and off for a little over 2 years. And in between those 2 years when we broke up for about a month he dated a girl for a week, he broke her heart to be with me. The girl is absolutely not his type cause she is just a party animal but she is pretty. So i just came to find out she will be coming to the same college as us, i'm freaking out i feel like they will bump into each other and she'll make him cheat on me. He says he'll never hurt me and we've broken up so many times that he says he wants it to work this time, but that's just always on my head (her) i really am so scared i'm still not over him having something with her cause it broke my heart when i found out he dated her. Another thing is i'm really really jealous and any girl he talks to gets on my nerves and i over analyze everything possible, i don't think i ever stop worrying. What can i do? i don't want to lose him.
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hi there. . I hope you dont mind me addin a coment its just that I was like this and perhaps am still. . The one thing I'd say is that from my life i can tell you men dont like constant negativity they see it as a dig at them and if you dont stop this you will drive him away. . I did. I didnt appreciate the small things i was too hung up on . 'You hardly tel me you love me' but if i had of looked closer i could of seen he did. . Also from your point of view you need to make yourself feel good about you. . Whats more attractive to him? Paranoid worrie r or confident girl? Look after your self and believe in you because you will push him away honey and you will regret take care. And i do understand as my partner broke up with me for exactly that x x
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