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writes: My question is more out of curiosity than anything. I've been with my boyfriend a little over five months, however it's always been long distance so we haven't seen each other much. That said, what's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance relationship? I feel like it's not really the same because you aren't together as much, like being together for a year long distance might be the equivalent of I don't know, maybe two years when you're together all the time. Then there's another side where LDR's are more difficult so they mean just as much. Crazy thought but what do you guys think?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (12 August 2010):
Have you even met each other yet! you really didn't say much for me to answer? i wouldn't do long distance relationships! the only way wer'e if my husband, was in the Military. other then that i don't get it. i mean how do you have one? how do you get to know one another? each others likes, dislikes, their moods, hobbies, things in common holding hands looking each other in the eyes knowing that person is next to you at night! i think relationships! like that in my opinion are for lonely people! to just have a conversation w/ someone other then the walls? and the other one i do not get is the women who marry men in prision, but hey more power to those relationships! like that. it's your life and your business to live the way you want too! but i choose touching someone.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 August 2010):
I have another question for you? What could be the harm in doing something special to celebrate your 6 months? It would just be a nice, fun thing. In a long distance relationship I'm of the opinion finding things like this to look forward to etc... is vital to surviving the distance. I agree with you, a LDR is much more difficult than normal. You should celebrate! It's an accomplishment!
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