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writes:A month ago I was at a music festival with some of my ex boyfriend's family. He was not there but I ended up sleeping with his brother. I have been attracted to him even when I was with my ex. He even was attracted to me. Well now, my ex's brother won't talk to me. Was this a bad idea? No one knows that we slept together. I do like his brother but if he will not talk to me then I probably should just think he got what he wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Yeah it was as bad idea, he obviously feels guitly for what he did
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): It sounds like he just wanted to fulfill his fantasy of having sex with you. He probably knows the impossibility of the situation, and has elected not to keep up a relationship with you. I would not pursue this unless you are both on the same page. he is probably just as scared and confused as you are. He'll talk when he's ready. I would just assure him he can contact you to talk, but you know he may need time. Leave it at that, and be prepared that nothing more may happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Does this young man knows you once had a relationship with his brother if no maybe he found out so he thought maybe you're playing games with them maybe thats why he doesn't talk to you anymore or he wanted you since you were dating his brother and he just wanted to have with you and then dumps you..
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reader, Cloverfield  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Sometimes things happen in the heat of the moment. & a summertime music festival, fun, drinks, you're away from home etc are all the right ingredients. However, I suspect afterwards he clenched in a big way, realising the impact it would have on the relationship with his brother if he ever finds out. I think this is one you'll just have to chalk up to experience.
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