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writes:yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something newso he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on by it at all. i told him and being the guy he is he wanted to see if gay porn (with guys) did it 4 me...it didnt. so then he tryed girl on girl....i have never been so turned on by a video in my entire life.but does this make me bisexual?? i know i used to think i was but then i relized it was more of a faze then for real.
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reader, MansonGroupie  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 It's difficult as (to agree with the above answer) you are at 'that age' where you are still discovering new things about yourself.
I wouldn't worry too much though, lots of girls are turned on just as much as men by lesbian porn, it doesn't neccessarily mean that they are bisexual.
To be honest, I think it's best to keep your options open. Would it really be that bad if you were to discover that you are attracted to women??
I myself struggled with these thoughts as a teenager, so did many of my friends and I don't like to label myself as lesbian, straight or bi...Just go with the flow. I like men and women, I'm not worried!
If you're happy with just watching girls getting it on but not actually wanting to go there yourself, that's fine too :)
Hope this helps. xx
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reader, MansonGroupie +, writes (29 June 2009):
It's difficult as (to agree with the above answer) you are at 'that age' where you are still discovering new things about yourself.
I wouldn't worry too much though, lots of girls are turned on just as much as men by lesbian porn, it doesn't neccessarily mean that they are bisexual.
To be honest, I think it's best to keep your options open. Would it really be that bad if you were to discover that you are attracted to women??
I myself struggled with these thoughts as a teenager, so did many of my friends and I don't like to label myself as lesbian, straight or bi...Just go with the flow. I like men and women, I'm not worried!
If you're happy with just watching girls getting it on but not actually wanting to go there yourself, that's fine too :)
Hope this helps. xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (29 June 2009):
 i don't think you are bi hun i get turned on by girl on girl action.
i think it's just different because i wonder what it would be like to be with a girl you probably are curious too.
doesn't make you any less straight just for thinking that.
it's more of a fantasy than it is you being gay.
i mean guys have fantasies and so do girls :) maybe that is your fantasy girl on girl action.
you'd probably want like a girl to go down on you and stuff :)
that's probably why try not too worry hun :)
hope this helps
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (29 June 2009):
 I think your just curious, im bi sexual and only found out i was by actually interacting with another girl, i only got turned on by girl on girl porn too and found my self very curious, just go with this feeling and mabey ask your boyfirend if you can try a 3sum if your ready or if you can try somthing with another girl just to see
Hope this helps
Good Luck
-Danielle xx
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