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writes:Ok, im a guy and im Bi. Im 27. I met my boyfriend who is very closeted eight months ago and he is 21 and very nice and intelligent but immature.I came out of the closet for him and I changed my entire life. He has made almost no changes for me.In the beginning he would show me an enormous amout of affection and he would take the bus to see me everyday...he would bring me presents, he would kiss me all the time ( without me asking him) he would want to spend the nite at my house.... now he is becomming more distant and he wont kiss me or hug me unless I beg him...?He always telles me he is hot or tired.He hates doing everything I want to do... Movies, Roadtrips,sports,malls,bowing,beaches,casinos,boat tours...etc And when I beg him to go with me he acts miserable the entire time and it ruins my time.He tells me that he wants to go to a bathhouse...he wants us to have threesomes all the time because hes 'horny and young' so I have to get dragged to a bathouse and have sex with him and these strangers....I am so frustrated because I dont want to do it....but he says "thats what interests me" ok.....he is a sexaholic and a nympho.... I dont call it equal when I want to go to a movie and he doesnt....and he wants to go to a bathhouse and I dont....he makes the comparason....how can he compare a bathouse and a movie theatre???? WTFhe always gets me to have sex with random people and he invites them over to my house and screws them in the other room....while im in the livingroom...... this is so he can cheat infront of my back instead of behind my back.He is incapable of maintaining a healthy relationship and he has to have sex constantly....when I was 21 I was able to keep it in my pants.Now when I hug him in public he gets very very mad.... he wont even sleep at my house because his mom wont let him?I cant handle all his messed up life....I love him but i am beginning to think we are not compatable???He doesnt want to do anything except sex with strangers? I want a normal life... How many times can I tell him this?Luka Magnotta
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): seem to me most men are like this!!! opposites attract this is why they say find things to make you happy not to exspect someone else to.try talking to him (communication and compromise)if this dosen't work.then your just not compatible. then there desicions to make.It's just going to get ugly when your in a one side it relationship. good luck with your relationship
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 this is not a relationship any more, you dont want to have sex with strangers yet he encourages this even though you dont like it. it seems like everything is on his terms. i would end it as you are being treated badly, share nothing in common and this situation is unhealthy.
you sound realistic and like you crave a stable life and social behaviour, he wants the exact opposite, it seems these two ways of life ARE incompatible and this young man doesn't understand.
good luck
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