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writes:Hey aunts and uncles i also posted this on yesterday but had no replies so would hope that anyone can reply to this today it's really driving me insane.so yeah i posted something on here a few days ago about a guy who i've known since primary school and we've talked ever since in high school wasn't so much but i used to like him in primary but silly crushes and then high school but he used to hang around with guys who used to sort of pick on me and he'd laugh along so i was too shy.anyways out of college and whatever else and we still hang out in a big group of us and i've noticed my feelings have never really gone away but gotten stronger i am not saying love at all. when we hang out and me and him always end up talking together and getting close by close i don't mean kiss i mean we always talk about pasts and girlfriends and boyfriends like exes we've had and his mum knows me and he's always said his mum wishes he'd get a girl like me .anyways i talked to him recently and he said about the person i want could be right under my nose. he also said because we've known eachother so long i'm part of his past and future i asked what he meant he said like i'm not going to get rid of him lol he said he's here forever :).Well friday just gone there was a BBQ by this guy we both hang out with there was a load of us again we were getting close and stuff, he told me i have an amazing personality and im really pretty and i've been part of his past and everything and he thinks im a really strong girl (from my past) anyways we hugged and everytime i hugged him he was kissing my neck, i'll not lie it felt really good.now ever since i can't get that off my mind! i know he's had and having alot of problems with his ex as she smashed a glass on his face and he doesn't deserve that! i know him so well and i reckon we'd be good to be honest.but from that what do you all think?do i actually stand a chance?bit clueless with things like that but everytime we hang out we really have big heart to hearts and get close.hope you can help :) thank you in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol.
are you sure now :P
but yeah they've been split for a while
thanks again Steve :) really helped me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't mean friends with benefits i mean actually trying to be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol Steve they are not together now.
they broke up ages ago they're trying to do the friends situation.
but things happen and they argue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so Steve you think he maybe a bit shy to actually tell me he likes me because the past girlfriends he's had and the way it's ended up going?
thanks for your oppinions really helps :)
i've never seen him that way before well i have but never admitted it and now i have admitted it i can't get it out my head.
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reader, Mamvula  +, writes (29 June 2009):
Hello, my opinion here is that this guy is so much into you but he is too shy to approach you because you guys have been around each other forever i mean, so you would ask your self one question, why havent he asked you out long time ago? i think he is securing his space in your heart because he is still deciding whether yoo should be together or not becoz firstly most guys love their moms in such a way that they respond positively in 80% of their mom's advises, so mom like you, you are in girl. secondly its also put you at ease to have a relationship with someone that you know very well, there are no suprises.... so it is worth giving a chance...id say go it...good luck guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Hi.....id agree - the signs are that he likes you! You sound pretty good friends......so just ask him whether the kisses meant anything, because you liked them! If not say you are cool as friends too....... but i think you may like his answer, go with your gut feeling!
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