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writes:im 15 and 7 months pregnant.me and my boyfrind are so happy together,and he always helps me out when ever he can. but something has poped up that he cant help me with.my mom.i know she loves me but what she is doing isnt right.see me and her argue all the time and im always under a lot of stress because of her.i want to get emancipated but that wont happen untill im 16. my mom has agreed to let me marry my boyfriend as soon as i turn 16 which will automaticly emancipate but that wont be untill after the babys born. and im begning to worry that the stress is effecting my baby girl.i live in washington USA and the law here says you cant get emancipated before your 16.i already have it aranged that i can live with my bfs mom if i need to and im working on getting my ged. please any suggestions would help. thanks. ashley Reply to this Question
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reader, mommy2be2009 +, writes (8 July 2009):
mommy2be2009 is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontank you all for your suport.to samii no me are not close we used to be but that was before she got a new boyfriend. ever since then she hasnt been the same.now all she dose is yell whene ever i talk to her about what im feeling. and to gemmaxx09 me and my mom have already talked about the whole thing and she isnt scared for me because she had me when she was 15 too and so far im doing better than she did. mainly because im more mature than she was at my age and im still with the father how is helping to suport me. my mom says sometimes im more mature than her. and shes already okayed me getting married acully she thinks its probly the smartest thing to do right now.
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reader, gemmaxx09  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 There must be issues bewteen you and your mum that are much deeper because you are only 15 pregnant and want to get married. Your mum must be very worried about you, you need to put yourself in her shoes.
Imagine in 15 years your child is in the same position, how would you feel? Yes you might think at the moment how happpy you are with you boyfriend and you having this baby, but in your mums eyes her 15year old daughter is 7months pregnant, and she is probably worried to death.
Having a baby is not easy for women that are much older although a 15 year old young girl. I think you need to talk with your mum and try and imagine how she is feeling. She must be very worried, hurt and scared for you. You only have one mother whether you see her as good or bad, dont run away from the problem with your mum and face it.
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