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*izman
writes:HiI met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we really hit it off. She would stare at me with a smile the whole night and went where ever i went. The next day she told me she had a boyfriend of 4 years. I was just going to leave it at that but she got my number from one of my friends and called me and left a message that night apologizing for the whole situation and how she is not that kind of girl. I waited a few days and decided to call her back. We started talking and she told me that she was going to tell her boyfriend about what we did and break up with him. I talked to her for several hours over the next couple days up to the time when she went to break up with the boyfriend. We had very intimate conversations those couple days. She called me and told me she broke up with her boyfriend but seemed upset because it didn't go the way she hoped. She was hoping that he would get mad when she told him about her and me and he would break up with her. He told her he forgave her and they would work through it. She had to then break up with him and said she felt horrible about hurting him that way and she seemed pretty upset. After this we have not talked very much at all. I called her a couple times and she didn't answer. She did then call me back one more time and told me to call her the next night. I called her back the next night and she told me she had to go and would call me back later that night. She has not called me at all. I have texted her but she would just answer back with very short one or two word answers. She does still text me a how are you? or what are you doing? every now and then. Do i need to be calling her back or should i just back off and give her some space? I don't want to keep calling and seem pushy since she just got out of a serious relationship but need to know where i stand
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reader, bizman +, writes (23 July 2009):
bizman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe wasn't interested in me. Messed around with a friend of mine as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): don't waste your time...stop calling her...she is indecisive...wait without expectations...she will come to you...just paly it cool, from then on!
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