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writes:i dated this girl for 4 years and after we broke up we didnt talk for a week or two. well i went to her collage graduation and things went well the next day was her birthday and i had lunch with her at my apartment... while we were eating luch she began to cry and say she was confused and i held her to comfort her and the feeling was mutual between us that things were gonna work out between us... however later that night at the birthday party i planned for her months ago, some of her friends began to tell me things that began to make me angry. and to top it off i was drunk, very drunk she and i began to argue and after she left i made the mistake of texting her that i was so mad and hurt that she had slept with another guy in only a month of being apart, turns out her friend lied to me and i made the mistake of calling her a slut. in the morning she texted me when she and i were nolonger under the influence and things seem bad again. i apoligized to her that i flew off the handle because her friend blatinly lied to me to make me angry. how do i fix this and do i still have a chance of keeping her in my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): first rule never believe what the girls friend says to you. if it's something horrible just plainly say something along the lines of "your friend said that dodolalalalalalalla". you were both drunk so it is understandable that you would act that way so just try to talk to her and avoid blaming her use yourself to blame and not her friend. she'll come around
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Things can always go bad when you're drunk, especially around lots of people. So be careful with that next time. However, I think if you just keep showing her that you are truly sorry and you truly care about her then she will forgive you.
When we are angry we tend to say things we don't mean. Just keep at it, don't let her go.
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reader, Amsieee(:  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 if i were you, say that you never stopped loving her and the thought of her with another person cut you so deep it led you to say things you didn't mean and you behaved rashly and it meant nothing. that your sorry, that you love her more than anything else in ths world. tell her what you feel. good luck x
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