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writes:im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he dated before. when i asked him to choose between the two of us he said i must give him time to live the gal. after a month i asked him if their still together but he didn't answer the question. he always get angry wen i talk about that gal. i truly love him but what he is doing is hurting me. im really confused,he even takes her to work but when i asked him,he denies it. he never showed it to me that he has a gal coz he still do all the things he use to do at first. i asked him if i must move on than he said im hurting him if i have to leave. now and then we are just arguing. what must i do,im so desperate about this guy.
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reader, dan026  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 You must make him choose between the two of you and if he chooses you then he must leave her now! You are basically telling him it's ok to stay with her by not breaking it off with him. Make him prove he really cares for you by sacraficing his other relationship. If not, you will always be the "other" girl and enabling a cheater.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Why would you want to be with a guy who is cheating on you? Guys like that are full of bullshit, he will continue to feed you the crap that hes going to leave her and not do it, trust me. Its only gonna end in tears, i'd advice you give him another ultimatum and if he doesnt do anything about it, leave. Have some dignaty girl!
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