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writes: I've been with my girlfriend since July 4, 2008, it's been the best relationship i've had in my lifetime, we understand each other, and we sincerely have told one to another that we want to be together 'till the end of times.Thing is that my girl was very affective, she always was the Hi my love!!!!!!!!!!!" kind Now she's only "Hey hun.", always told me how much she loved me, how much she missed me, how much i meant to her all the time! and now she's just not doing it anymore or not as much or gives me an automatic response only when i tell her how i feel..Example:Me: I love you darling :Dshe: I love you too.Me: I miss you baby :(She: I miss you too.Me: You mean the world to me, really, you're the best thing that ever happened to me!She: You too honey.What should i do!!!!?!?!?! I already talked to her about it, Already gave her a monologue of how i felt about it and how she've changed all of a sudden in matter of days! she says i'm right but she doesn't know whats wrong with her, she says she feels all of it but it just doesn't comes out, and she doesn't know the reason...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): it's normal for feelings to die down with time, but certainly not this fast. If she used to be a certain way and changed, I'd pay attention
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): I experienced this once in my life and I must say that my relationship ended. I can't say what exactly happened or what was wrong, but I guess we just needed some space. But I didn't rly see that and I kept making more effort to love her but she just couldn't respond the way I wanted her to. What happened one day was her saying how she fell out of love with me. To some extent it was true (although i knew there was more). So we ended the relationship...I can't handle a one sided love. I think maybe you should give her and yourself some space. OR maybe you can try to do other things together...have some fun and experience new things together. I don't really know the way to solve it since I blew my chance already. So maybe someone else can offer some more advice ^^
Good luck to you either way.
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