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writes:okay, so i've been going out with this guy for a little over a month now but he's liked me for 2 years. i guess i don't like him as much as i thought i did but he's so good to me and i just cant bring myself to break up with him no matter how bad i want to. so my question is, is it wrong that i hung out with another guy w/out telling him even though im planning on breaking up with him? it was totally casual and we didnt do anything other than talk, but i feel really guilty. Reply to this Question
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reader, joe26  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 don't do that unless your in an open relationship. Things will get worse if you don't tell the person the truths. It will be consider cheating anyway. Just call it quits and find someone you like to be with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): I happen to believe it is cheating when my girl friend hangs out with another guy in the circumstance that her heart is saying one thing and her words tell me another. You feel guilty because are have not broken up with your current bf and are doing things that imply dating. The sooner you break up with your current bf the better, if you keep hanging out with other guys you will be hurting his feelings and make things more complicated than it needs to be. Good luck babe, just come out and say it.
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reader, Injeopardy +, writes (29 June 2009):
You need to make a decision. You should try to give your bf a chance, find the reasons you don't like him like you thought you did and see if you can get past them. If you know you don't want to be with him then don't keep leading him on and making him believe in a lie.
I've learned that it's alright for girls with boyfriends to hang out with guys, it bothers me a lot when my gf does, but it's all about trust.
I'm not sure how to go on about telling him you hung out with a guy alone, you should have told him BEFORE you did it and made sure everything was ok. Good luck!
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