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I'm shy but really turned on by them!

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Question - (29 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Im a straight woman (I'm pretty sure, anyways). I have these two co-workers who openly declare themselves as bisexual. They are both into the punk/goth thing. I think they think I'm a really square Hmong girl but I've had a lot of sexual fantasies about them. They are not a couple but they have spoken of sleeping together. I'm thinking of asking them for a drink but what I really want to do is maybe go home with them. These girls are super friendly and crazy...me, I'm shy but really turned on by them. What do I do?

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A male reader, citic101 France +, writes (30 June 2009):

citic101 agony auntAsk them out and have a few drinks and take it from there afew smiles and a kiss or two should make all your dreams true. Good luck sounds great

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

wow, that sounds really tempting, i think you should go for it;) for all you know they might be fantasizing about you! so ask em out for a couple drinks, and fill us in later!

~D

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2009):

betty_black agony auntI know a lot of punks that have what we would class as "normal" "girl next door" girlfriends/boyfriends. Just because they dress and are into different things that your into, doesnt mean that they wont be attracted to you! I think you should break that barrier of shyness and just go ahead and ask them. I doubt they'll reject it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

There is no reference to it at all in you question, but have you ever thought there is any chance you might be bisexual?

But if you're not then yehh probably it is just like some sexual fantasy.

I think you should invite them for a drink. See what happens. You only live once =)

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