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writes:dear people,help me i am really desperate i am 15 and single and i have never had a boyfriend, i feel so ugly and not confident if i could just know the signs that someone fancies me so i could feel more confident with me my self and feel that i am not ugly, people never say i am pretty and i feel i dont have a boyfriend because i have size A boobs but some other people have boyfriends WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you. Iknow that at fifteen all you want is for boys to like you. The one thing that you have to remember is that for someone else to like you, you first have to like yourself. It is not the size of the boobs that counts, it is who you are as a person. I remember being fifteen...it;s tough!! You have to try to find who you are and then stand up and be honest with yourself. This can be very confronting, but to live life and have no regrets, honesty is the best policy. Good luck, I know its hard but it wont be like this forever!!
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 I was going through the same phase at your age (and since I'm a boy I was happy not having big boobs.) I got my first GF at 19. You're doing something right now that I didn't have the guts to do, to seek advice/ask questions. That shows that you're smart, always ask advice or opinion on things so that it can grow your mind even more.
Don't let outside sources affect the way you feel inside.
If you feel ugly/not confident because you don't have a boyfriend, you'll think that you need a boyfriend in your life in order to be truly happy. Some boys may use that against you by saying things like "Do this or I'll leave" or forcing you to do things you don't want to.
If you develop that independent spirit you'll be able to spot people who tries to take advantage of you before they do.
Everybody got their preferences when it comes to boys/girls. Some girls like tall guys, some like them little etc. Some guys like big boobs, some like small ones.
So it's not about feeling ashame of our bodies, it's about finding someone who will like it for the way it is.
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reader, betty_black +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Size A boobs dont stop models dating! Dont fret it, boob size isnt important to alot of men. My boyfriend prefers my legs even though ive got DD breasts! Boys are all different, some arent bothered about physical appererance too much. I wouldnt worry about it, your still only a baby, im sure going to college and moving up in the world will help you to find some boyfriends! I wish i had have waited to get interested in boys til i was older than you are, so be thankful you havent rushed into things!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): hey, it's weird because i'm 15 and i haven't had a boyfriend either! i sometimes worry about it and i pretend all the time that i have had boyfriends but i know i shouldnt. i suppose i've been waiting for thattt person. i wouldnt worry about it, just take things as they are and see what happens. try to be more confident in yourself. make the most of yourself! i have size A boobs too, but people shouldnt like you for your breast size! keep your head up, things can only get better :) message me if you want xxxxxxxxx
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