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30-35,
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writes: Dear Cupid, Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now. We're really close and are important in each others lives. Her mom works a lot so she drops her off at my house and we get to hang out after school till usually 7 pm. A couple of months ago a new girl transferred to our school, we quickly made friends with her. Since the new friend (let's say Sunny) lives close after a while we head over to her house. So, my gf and Sunny hang out more often, like around school a lot. My gf would spend our time with her, it wasn't much but it annoyed me. Sunny reassured me it was natural for girls. As time went on it got worse, A LOT worse. It's gotten to the point where I barely see my gf, and when I do Sunny is there and when Sunny is there my gf is always messing around with her. It seems like she doesn't even want to be around me when Sunny is there. When we are alone together (only like 1 hour) me and my gf are really close and are with together. I'm happy when I get to hold her but it pisses me off how she acts around Sunny. I've been telling them for months how it bothers me, my gf is sorry for it and doesn't want me to be upset. Yet nothing happens, I don't get more alone time with her or they stop ignoring me, it seems like it just gets worse and worse. What should I do, we don't want to break up and want each other to be happy. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): To Samii:I have already told both of them that yet they don't do anything about it. Even though they don't like it when I'm upset -.-(Question Asker)
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