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writes:Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It doesn't happen in any other position, just doggy style.. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN!? Is there anything I can do to make it stop?Does it happen to anyone else!?! I don't like doing it doggy style because of that stupid sound.. Will it go away after a while? I noticed that after a few minutes of doing it doggy style, the sound is gone.. But I just hate that initial first minute... I want it to go away!!!
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reader, Alexandriabunny1 +, writes (1 July 2012):
 Oh My Gosh This Happened To Me Last Time! Me And My Boyfriend Were Having Sex Then He Told Me Lets Try It Doggy Style And I Was Like Sure The We Did It I Enjoyed It But Then When I Layed Back Down My Vagina Farted! It Was So Embarrassing But We Laughed And Then We Did It Normally But It Was Soo Embarrassing I Hope It Doesn't Happen Again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): i can make this sound happen if im layin on my back [NOT IN DOGGYSTYLE OR NOT EVEN WHILE HAVING SEX FOR THAT MATTER] is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): It is just air, and the up position of your body in that way, it is normal and don't worry...........I think if he went in the regular way 1st and you turned with him inside you to doggy style....... the cavity would be filled up and not vag fart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This has happened to me more times than I can remember, and it only happens in the doggy style position. What happens to me is that when I'm bent over like that, my vagina opens up, and his penis PUSHES air into it, but the air cant stay inside forever so it pushes out. Be sure to explain to your boyfriend that is completely normal, and be sure he understands that its not a real fart!! If you don't tell him, he may not know, because they sound the same. Honestly, the only way to stop that noise is to stop having sex in that position. Or else, when you're doing it, maybe try to angle yourself in different ways until you find out what works to minimize it the most. It will have to be something you sort of work together on, too. If he loves you, he wont care. Honestly. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Don't put your butt up too high in the air! If you're too slanted, it'll happen. So try to keep your back more straight and it shouldn't happen....at least in my experience.
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reader, serenityjohnson +, writes (29 June 2009):
The same thing happens to me everytime my boyfriend and i have sex and the only position i do it in is doggy style also...i also be embrassed by the sound but my boyfriend however enjoys, it is a part of sex and thats wats makes it so interesting
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Ooooo... the queef..
that's tough girl. LOL! It's just air passing through trying to go between his penis and your opening.. I suppose that style in particular because of the angle.
Maybe change the way you're starting? For instance, if you're starting off slowly, then try to move a little faster? Or if you're starting quickly, move slower.. or if he just pushes all the way in, maybe he should go in little by little.. ya know? Sorry i don't have the facts on this one, and it's certainly nothign i've ever learned in school.
All I know is, in like, 7th grade, the guys on the bus would call the girls "queefes" and I didnt know what it meant. How embarrassing.. Lol..
USE PROTECTION.
~Sy.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 June 2009):
 It occurs to most of us, especially with doggy-style, so laugh it off and don't be embarrassed at all about it. It's just a release of trapped air that often happens in that position.
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reader, Wreck +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Its called a queef.. it happens when air goes into your vagina when hes thrusting in and out ... its normal happened to me a couple of times.
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reader, BusDriver +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Absolutely normal - while he's pounding away... well he is pushing air in and it has gotta escape somehow.... it is called a 'vart'.
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reader, dan026 +, writes (29 June 2009):
 It is air being released from your vagina that was pushed inside from sex. Doggy style tends to create this more than other positions. There isn't anything you can really do. Just avoid that position if it makes you too uncomfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): It's very common, relax and enjoy doggy, which is one of the best positions ever. It's common, so it'll likely happen again. It happens because this positions allows the vagina to be more exposed and open, and so, when the penis enters, it pushes some air into the vagina. The motion then makes it go out and sound like a fart. Relax, it'll likely happen again, but it's no big deal. I'm sure most other people have experienced this. As it happens more often you'll get used to it.Oh, and one more thing... it's not the most embarrassing thing that can happen during sex. Actually, it's one of the least embarrassing ones. Imagine farting for real... that would be way more embarrassing and even then, not the most embarrassing thing. So relax and enjoy doggy, I insist that it's one of the best positions ever!
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