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How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?

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Question - (29 June 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let her know that I would like to sleep with her without offending her in case I am wrong and she is not in to me. Thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

i think you have just OFFENDED US by asking us to help you shag your sis in law. maybe grow some balls and grow up??? you both are married, who will be f*cking your wife while you are f*cking the family member. i am hoping your wife has a real man with a real d*ck who can satisfy her, you obviously can't.

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2009):

Lilly Rose agony auntEnd it with your wife before you do this....as if you loved your wife you wouldnt even be asking this! Your going to hurt alot of people if you do this!!!

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A female reader, hlophe South Africa +, writes (29 June 2009):

No no no !!!!!that is so wrong dude,you should stop it immediately.Cheating is not an option.Whatever feeling you think you have forget and erase them.

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A male reader, Beingblack United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2009):

Beingblack agony auntIf you were any kind of real man, you would not even ask this question. Your brother in law's WIFE! Come on now.

I don't blame her. I think you are misreading her friendliness for something more. Stop thinking about her, or you will make a fool of yourself.

And you should examine your question again. How can I let her know I want to sleep with her? Not 'how can I let her know I would like to know her better?', or 'how can I let her know I have feelings for her?'.

Is she just some 'thing' that you want to have sex with? Where's the romance? Wheres the love? Exactly. There is none. You just want to get off. And thinking about doing it with another man's WIFE.

Use your head, this is not a good idea! You just want the sex, and you want to add her to your list, so that you can smirk at your brother in law when you see him. 'I slept with your wife, fool'. Great attitude if you're an immature youth.

Grow up, and go find your own woman, there are plenty out there.

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A female reader, shnookims South Africa +, writes (29 June 2009):

shnookims agony auntYou're both married... Get rid of these thoughts before you destroy 2 marriages!If you can't get rid of the thoughts then don't act on them. Avoid being alone with her and try looking at your wife some more.

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (29 June 2009):

Your friend agony auntIf she isn't your sister then you should treat her as if she is.

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (29 June 2009):

Your friend agony auntThe wife of your bother in law would be your sister....if this a joke don't waste our time.

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