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*ubbloo24
writes:Hi guys :)Well, basically, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we've been going really strong so far. I have two problems that I hope you can help me with:- I have an anxiety disorder which means I get panick attacks. This anxiety disorder also has a link with depression so I'm taking Venlafaxine 75mg anti-depressants to deal with both the depression and anxiety. However, they've not been working brilliantly lately and I've found myself shouting at my boyfriend for no particular reason, crying uncontrollably and that my sex drive is at an all time low. He cuddles me and kisses me when I suddenly start crying and he tells me he loves me and that he won't leave me because he knows I'm suffering but I'm terrified of pushing him away... what should I do? I've told him my fear of losing him but he just keeps telling me he won't... but it doesn't stop me worrying...- My other problem is that I've met one of my primary school friends who's a guy through facebook and I'm catching up with him. I went out to meet him tonight but before I did, I told my boyfriend what I was planning to do and that there was nothing at all to worry about. Having been cheated on in the past, I can sense he's worried about it even though he says he's not... Did I do the right thing in telling him? Or does that make him worry more? I did emphasise that it was just a meeting of two old friends and nothing more.I'm so scared of losing him, I love him so so much. Any advice on these questions would be great :) Bubbloo24 xxxx
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reader, yikes  +, writes (30 June 2009):
Hi!
I really think that you need to talk to you doctor about your proscription. Also, just explain to your boyfriend what you explained to us- I really think he's going to understand. Also, maybe you should have your bf come with you to meet your old fried. I know it may be akward for him but then atleast he would feel more comfortable seeing what is going on rather than hoping your not cheating.
Hope it works!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): You sensed that he was worried but you did not cheat on him so he will only love you more. I know I would if I were with my gf and she was in the same situation as u.
If your medication is not working you may have to consult you doctor and inform him of this, maybe he can prescribe an alternative.
Your bf is trying his best to be at your side and there for you. He clearly understands you and what you are going through. So I will have to tell you to do the same for him, try YOUR best as well. We all worry about the past...and the future...we should try to focus more on the present and realize what is right in front of us...in your case a very loving boyfriend, with the love of his life.
Good Luck to you ^^
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Talk with him, thats really all I can say.
And all guys get jelaous if his girl goes out with another guy. He just has to trust you. You have to trust him, that he wont leave you.
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