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writes:I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think about it.[Mod note: this poster then asked the following question, which I have added here, as they are essentially the same information and question.]Is my boyfriend pulling away? Im 3weeks pregnant, i just told my boyfriend this news 3days ago. He said he will think about my pregnancy. He will come back to me after a week or month after i told him that i dont understand this thinking issue is whether he inn or out. I am afraid that im losing him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Thabs +, writes (30 June 2009):
Thabs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Betty Black! Your 1st advice real helped me. He said that he is prepared to see me soon. Although this pregnancy thing came as a shock to him and he said he still confuse. We were communicating through email. Maybe the reason made him changed his mind is because i told him i will take other steps.
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reader, Thabs +, writes (30 June 2009):
Thabs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Betty Black! Your 1st advice real helped me. He said that he is prepared to see me soon. Although this pregnancy thing came as a shock to him and he said he still confuse. We were communicating through email. Maybe the reason made him changed his mind is because i told him i will take other steps.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Oh well it should be easier for you!! I know that by law even if a man chooses not to see his child he has to pay for it, but i know that alot of men get away with not doing.
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reader, Thabs +, writes (29 June 2009):
Thabs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCourt? i like the idea. He knows that i am capable of the direction to that procedure since im working in the high court.
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reader, betty_black +, writes (29 June 2009):
Well its clearly come as a big shock to his system, as it does most men. They dont have to deal with it in the way we do, if they choose to be a coward and run away they can do, and can do it quite happily and never return. Its wrong, but its what can happen. You need to talk to him and let him know that its come as a shock to you as well but you want him to be there for you and you want to help each other through this. Its not an easy thing to go through, and you need support. If he does choose to do a runner, i'd advice getting in touch with family and friends who can give you the help you need. There is things the courts can do, but im not sure how efficiant they are at doing it.
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