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writes:My mom is usually laid back, she doesn't let me get away with everything, but a fair amount of things, she would never tell me who i could and could not be friends or, or who i could or could not date..until my boyfriend came along, i made a big mistake confiding in my sister about our relationship problems, and behind my back she would go and tell my mom everything.i feel like nobody understands me, and i'm just alone, nobody will back me up about my boyfriend and its just me fighting my family and my friendsmy mom tries so hard to keep us apart, but i wish she would just let me live my own life and make my own desicions, this is tearing my family apart because i am always angry at my whole family, i yell and scream and i tell them all i hate them because i feel like i do.i know you will probably say this is all not worth it, and it may not be, but i wish they would just let me be happy instead of picking all the wrong things about him, they dont see that he makes me happy.i dont know how to get my family to forgive and forget and to step out of the way and let us be happy.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): hi, i had read your problem, concerning about your family and love relationship. actually, we have the same position or should i say similarities. i'm inlove but my parents don't like him. and still, they don't want me to have a bf, just because i'm too young?? yes, i know it, but he makes me happy. they just didn't understand my feelings. i know that this is only a puppylove but i know this is part of a teenager life. and i want to experience it, like my other friends. i hope when i tell them in my birthday, specially my father, he/they will accept decision. i do love him. and i love my parents too. they both fair in my heart. i can't sacrifice them both. i just always ask guide and advice to god, and hoping he will give me a chance to have this love, that i never felt before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): I hope SY is right, that the other was your post as well. I replied to that one. Check it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-sisters-act-like-my-mother.html
This is also yours, no? I'm really sorry you didn't get any responses. I don't have any good advice for you so i left it alone instead of giving you bad advice. But i wanted to post this link so people could read both and for goodness sake, someoen please help her.
~Sy.
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reader, mommy2be2009  +, writes (29 June 2009):
i belive that mother do (or at least should) want there children to be happy and if your boyfrind makes you happy you shold try and explain that to her, INSTEAD of yelling cuz all she will probly do is yell back and that leads to more problems.me and my mom have are the same but im only 15 and im 7 months pregnate.she dosent understand what stress she puts on me and my baby.
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