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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend wants to do sex with me but i am not ready. yesterday at school he asked me my favourite flavour and at night he came to my house and told he wanted to have sex with me.he had also brought my favourite flavour's condom.but i sent him back after talking for a while.i love him alot he to does but ammm. what should i do?i am 14 and he is 16.
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reader, chelseaaaa x  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 it sounds like he is a right twat and needs to learn about feelings lol x i think that all he after is sex sex sex!!!! which to me is not a relationship you need him to understand you have feelings and your not ready to have sex at the moment so say you can wait for me and if you really love me then you wuld and if he doesnt and he was just using you for sex then just say fine i can move on peicee off s--t lol and move on from him he obv werent worth your love if he treats you like thats xxxxx good luck with it all babes x x x x
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reader, betty_black +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Thats not a very big age gap but means alot with the age youre at. Hes legal and youre not, therefore if you were to do anything he could be arrested. But putting law aside here, you are not ready at 14 and wont be ready for a few years yet, you've told him how you feel and if he continues to mention it, then finish it. Tell him to find someone his own age who wants the same as he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): I second what Emily said -- this guy is too immature, too much of a cad, to be dating you. He is *bad* news. You deserve waaay better.
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reader, identifiable +, writes (29 June 2009):
 To be completely honest love at 14 is not love at 18 or even 20, i dont know how long you dated but i doubt its even been a long period of time meaning a year or two ! ... Sex at 14 isnt right in my opinion i believe your not emotionally even pysically ready! And bringing over a flavoured condom making assuptiuons is insensitive and to be frank just plain rude. He obviously dosent have a high opinion of you just to assume you would suck his dick let alone sex... i mean my assumption but whats the flavour for right! ... you seem like a nice girl so end it or talk to your mates see what they think, and if your scared of being judge you just show your not ready at all ... good luck dont be peer pressured !
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 June 2009):
You tell him to stop asking for sex or he's dumped.
He clearly does not care about you if all he is after is sex. Tell him you are not ready and that he needs to back off a bit and stop looking like a desperate pervert.
Coming over with a flavoured condom is just nasty. If a guy did that to me at 26 I'd dump him then and there.
Has he never heard of romance? Or even dating?
Be very careful with this one, he sounds like a jerk.
Good Luck!! xx
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