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writes: How do people get brave enough to break up the family unit? It has been years of serial adultery (which I didn't realize until 5 years ago). All the children are now grown up. I have Multiple Sclerosis but I am keeping physically fit and go to the gym (even though he thinks it is too expensive). I do work though only very part time from home. I have recently completed my MA, just so I could keep focused. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): You just decide if you want to live the remainder of your life:
(1) with your dignity intact, or
(2) feeling like you are being used and probably not even second or third, or whatever to who knows what?
Nobody would choose (2) unless there are special circumstances like children at home.
Consult an attorney first so you do okay with division of property.
Good luck.
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (12 June 2009):
Congratulations, you're such a strong woman, I admire you.
You just need to get up and face the fact that your husband is being unfaithful and it's not you thats breaking up the family unit, it's him. You sound independant and educated so I think you'll do great, I hope you find love again.
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