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reader, TheNerd  +, writes (12 June 2009):
There is one possibility: he may be afraid that they're better than he is at stealing your heart. Let him know that you'd never give them a second glance while he's around.
Other than that, if he is trying to keep you a secret from EVERYBODY than it may be possible that he already has a girlfriend that they all know about.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (12 June 2009):
Honestly, I think you should break up with him. If he can't tell his friends who he's dating then he's probably just using you. Usually when a guy starts dating a girl, he wants to tell the world, not keep it private. You're young so you might think you love him but you can find someone who is way better than that and respects you and can actually let his friends know who his girl is.
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reader, nancyhasglasses +, writes (11 June 2009):
Then he's not into you. Someone who asks you to be dishonest is not going to be honest with you. I'm sure there are tons of other fellows your age who would be delighted to introduce you to their friends and take you out. Get off the internet and go meet them!
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 You need to speak to him about this hunni it's not a good thing.
Boys your age are nervous of telling there friends about having girlfriends in case they get laughed out and for a boy to get humiliated is bit a very nice thing and then they will start taking it out on you..
Also when people find that you are going other people tend to stuck their nose in and maybe this is what he is afraid of as he dosent want his mates interfereing with something that he wants to keep his own special little thing! Maybe talk to him and see how he take it and maybe say that it is time for it to go out on the open otherwise you won't be able to lie no more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): He's either embarrassed of you, or worried that his friends will put you off him and be very annoying to you and scare you away, so sorry don't know what you should do but i hope it becomes more official
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reader, Blanquito87 +, writes (11 June 2009):
well i personally feel that what he is doing isnt right and you should demand to know why he is doing this.i dont want to be negative in any way but if he isnt telling his friends about you two dating than that isnt a good sign.something is wrong and you should talk to him and have him answer why is he doing that to you and from my opinion there isnt any excuse ir anything he can say to justify it.goodluck
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reader, ohhellNo +, writes (11 June 2009):
hes not a good boyfriend if he doesnt want the world to know about you two let alone just his friends.I honestly think you should let him go he likes you BUT he is ashamed of something and hes not telling you.
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