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writes:Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. We both cheated on each other, so it was pretty obvious the relationship was pointless as we were both into other people. The guy i cheated with is a good friend of mine and i have really strong feelings for him. The thing is i dont know if he feels the same. We slept together a few months ago and since then we have only kissed. There has always been this sexual chemistry between us and i would love for it to be something more than just friends who enjoy making out! But i have heard that he is a bit of a player and has a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends. I have told him how i feel but i dont think he thought i was being serious and ever since that i have tried to hide my feelings and try to make him chase me. I am really unsure about what to do and i'm worried that he wont feel the same way about me. Also i'm not sure why i am feeling like this so sudden after breaking up with my boyfriend, even though i cheated on him, i was still upset when we split up. I dont know if i just want some male attention again or if i actually would like a relationship with this new guy =S Any advice would be greatly appreciated as my head is a bit all over the place at the moment! Thanks =) xx
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Because you slept with your friend without requiring some kind of a relationship from him and he has that "player" kind of attitude, then he might see you as nothing more than a friend he can get benefits from.
Your previous relationship clearly didn't work for a reason, even though you were upset about leaving it. He wasn't that into you and you weren't that into him.
I think you should just enjoy being single and keep your eye open for a really good guy.
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