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He's great in all aspects except he never contacts me, and I feel I'm doing all the work!

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Question - (11 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi guys

I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. Im 21 and he's 28. We live 30miles from each other. We've known each other for years and after breaking up from my horrible ex, we've made a go of things. He is amazing....when he's happy. He's kind, considerate, good in other depts and makes me feel good. However, when we're apart, he never contacts me and i feel like im doing all the work. He used to chase me, send me pics etc but now it's all me. Do you think we can make this work? Please help because i think im falling for him!

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A female reader, Jesshton United States +, writes (11 June 2009):

Jesshton agony auntYou just need to let him breathe a little. Guys LOVE the chase...so let him chase you. Don't be the first to call or send a text. Let him do it. And you don't have to answer every call or every text. He will come around when he thinks you may be losing interest.

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A female reader, ohhellNo United States +, writes (11 June 2009):

its suspicious behavior but yes it can work if he meets you 50/50 but in 3-6 months if hes still acting the same way not trying let it go take a break from him and try something else.

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