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writes:I'm 17 and a virgin.I'm looking to lose my virginity and heard that MILFs are very suitable for and attracted to the average young man.Is this true?I am overweight and not very socially experienced with women and quite anxious hence my virginity.Will this greatly affect my chances?Meeting people in real life first is a very intimidating prospect,I'd rather meet them online first.What (is a/are) good website(s) for me to visit?Dating websites,forums etc...What I want is a mentor that can teach me the ways of love and shatter my anxiety towards women.I also have a thing for mature women...Thanks!
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reader, cindy888  +, writes (12 June 2009):
Most MILFs only want hot younger guys, sorry. What's the point of having sex with an unexperienced guy that doesn't look like a stud if you are an older woman? Older women make jokes about the "pool guy" so they are usually picturing young men with 6 pack abs with their shirts off. MILFs work hard on their bodies and keep up with their looks and that's why they are hot and in demand by young men and older men, they get alot of options.
Find someone around your age or even an older woman that has a lot in common with you and you'll be better off anyway.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 I don't agree that being overweight will affect your chances because everybody is different with their individual views on what beauty is. Which also means of course that not all older women find younger men attractive. Plenty of fish is a pretty good dating site but don't just go out and loose your virginity for the sake of it because sex is so much better when you feel something for the person you're with. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): It sounds to me like your pushing yourself toward something you are not ready to handle. Lay off the idea that you need to loose the one thing that you truly own-yourself-and wait until you are mature enough that your own mind and body will motivate you to get what you need when you are good and ready to benefit from the experience you seek. If you need a mentor to guide you, you are not ready to lose your virginity. Ideally, you will lose your virginity when you really want and need to lose it ON YOUR OWN and not before.
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