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writes:I've been with my boyfriend 6 months, but i'm constantly having sexual dreams about other men. What I don't understand is why? I've never even contemplated being with anyone else, in fact, the thought of it makes me feel sick. So why is it I keep having these dreams? Particularly when it's people I don't find remotely attractive! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I believe Ashtarochi pulled that directly off of a dream website.
If you want professional opinions, you can google "dream analysis" and click on the first link.
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reader, hijacked_dignity  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 I wouldn't worry too much about this. I mean unless you are obsessing about these men right before you fall asleep (which I don't think you are) these dreams just might be at random. I have had a boyfriend for nearly a year and I have had dreams about having sex with the most random people we know. It doesn't mean that I'm going to cheat on my boyfriend, and I certainly can't control what I dream about most of the time, so just chill out and enjoy the ride! It's not cheating anyway. Haha. When the brain sends out those signals, it isn't determining you to have sex with people you DO find attractive, it is just filling in the gap of the dream with someone random. Most likely someone you talked to that day, or something familiar.
Though having constant dreams like this may be telling you that something is on your mind concerning your boyfriend. Are you feeling neglected as far as sex goes with him? Is there something that he's doing wrong? If not, then don't worry about the dreams. :) They happen to everyone, and it's beyond your control. You even might be sexually charged even in your sleep because of all the amazing sex you ARE actually having! Who knows?
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reader, Ashtarochi +, writes (11 June 2009):
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship. One should never take symbolism in dreams literally cause they never mean what you think they do.
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