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female
age
30-35,
*haunthesheep
writes:I have been madly in love with my teacher for a year, and I still am! But now school is all coming to end and i wont see him as much, I dont know what I am going to do without him? I miss him over weekends, and have been during exam leave! I really dont know how I am going to live without him. I think he wants to be with me. I mean he winks at me when people arent looking, and we have some connection between us! But what do i do?
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reader, pebble +, writes (13 June 2009):
 Just because it's 'legal' doesn't mean it's not frowned upon. If he started a relationship with you he would be suspended from his job. No headteacher would allow one of their employees to start a relationship with a former pupil who is so young. And you'd have a hard time convincing them that nothing was going on with him while you were still at school anyway.He isn't going to risk his entire life (career, reputation, wife? kids?) for a 16 year old girl. The sooner you realise it's not going to happen the better.If you're not going back to the school now then you'll forget him. Everyone gets infatuated with someone at some point but eventually it goes away. It's not love. You probably think I'm wrong but when you really do fall in love you'll know better.In a years time you'll look back and think "what the hell was I thinking?" We've all been there.It's time to concentrate on your future now, not your past.
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reader, shaunthesheep +, writes (13 June 2009):
shaunthesheep is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno seriously i have finished school now !!! never going back again!!! he is not my teacher any longer, it might be different in your country! but it is legal once i have finished school, but i know it will never happen, i just cant get over him!
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reader, shaunthesheep +, writes (12 June 2009):
shaunthesheep is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have literally finished school now, he is no longer my teacher! and never will be again unless i get him for sixth form which i no i am not going to anymore as someone else is teaching it!
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reader, RCK  +, writes (11 June 2009):
Are you serious?? He winks at you and you have a connection? How would you feel if another guy winks at you when people aren't looking? Leave your teacher alone and wait until you are no longer at the school before you proceed to follow your fantasy. Then you can do as you please and ask him that all mighty question to see if he likes you too.
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