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writes:at school there is this guy i like and hes really really quiet. And maybe a couple of days ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out sometime so he just read it n denied me so i figured rejected right...sooooooo now he stares a lot n looks over a lot so i dont know whats up with that n he sits in the desk in front of me and he looks 2 da right n i can c him looking at me with the corner of his eye it trips me out! n like 2day in skool i was kickin it with some ppl n he comes over n when he sees im there he just turns bak n walks away. I also know that he has checked me out. N were in groups n he always comes around 2 my group n it could b bcuz he knows the guyz in my groups idk its confusing... Hes not cute though i just find something in him something really attracts me you know....y did he deny me?n what could i do? im pretty shy myself
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I think he denied you because his friends can see his myspace friends and he wants to appear cool with them for whatever STUPID reason. He obviously likes you or else he wouldn't be stealing glimpses of you, etc.
Since you're both shy and since he is the guy you have to arrange a meeting to ask him out because if you asked him out directly he would deny you as he is immature but not unreasonable given his age. You're shy but you want what you want and will need to be more expressive.
So I think, you like him and he likes you but he doesn't know what to do to meet you. In his mind he's thinking how he can get together with you. You have to help him with that. Tell him you want him to help you with some subject you studied in class. Then tell him to meet in the library, play chess and go for a ...at the mall.
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reader, Dmct90 +, writes (11 June 2009):
so, i honestly don't know why he denied you on my space, because it seems that he also likes you. but i think you should try confronting him face to face. just try and start a conversation if you haven't already. try and not be she so can feel more comfortable. i hope this helps at all. plz keep me informed on what happens.-DC
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