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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (11 June 2009):
talk to your mum properly about it.. Besides aren't you a little old to be doing as she says?
I don't understand how religion comes into this either and if it helps you with lab work then why not go have it done with out her knowing she can't say anything to you after you have had it done can she??!!!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 June 2009):
And, maybe you could do something positive with the hair you cut off? Not sure if they have programs like "Locks of Love" or anything where you are, but perhaps you can donate your hair to a cause. God would definitely give you the thumbs up on that. But, if that is not an option, I think "DC" definitely gave you the best suggestion. Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I agree with Harry. Why is your mum so concerned with your hair? You already work in a lab; science and religion? Conflicting ideas, yet your mum is still ok with that.It's really dangerous too. Bunsen burners, chemicals, you're potentially a walking hazard!Tell your mum to get over it and have a lovely v- shape cut in.
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (11 June 2009):
Why would "God" be interested in how long your hair is?
Harry.
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reader, Your friend +, writes (11 June 2009):
I like Dmct90's suggestion, its not a situation she can debate with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I don't see how she can stop you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): it is your hair and you can do what you want with it regardless of silly religious stuff x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (11 June 2009):
Hun it's your hair your life your money so go for it i mean if it's for work as well surely she can understand.surely she doesn't want you getting told off for having too long hair and getting into all sorts of chemicals and stuff. could affect you in the long run.anyways just go for it.your hair and it's your career you're thinking of here.Hope this helps x
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reader, Dmct90 +, writes (11 June 2009):
try having your boss write a letter to her saying 'your hair needs to be cut due to safety precautions in the lab'. just a thought.-DC
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