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36-40,
anonymous
writes:is it true that girls loss their virginity with out having sex? my girl friend with whom i studied high school have no virginity and told she never dated with anyone before me.and now we are living in different worlds and about to get married with her and bring her where i am.before this i want to know is that true or not,it irritates me so much......please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): having virginity is not must,because it could be damaged by running, playing, cycling etc.girl's......... are too soft. it can be damaged without having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): hi i am also a girl and i have also no virginity.Because of this my boyfriend don't belive me.I don't know what to do please help me too.I really need your help.Please belive in your girl friend she is not lying.
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reader, prince01  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 no being a virgin possibly means she hadn't any penetrative sex (penile-vaginal sex) with a man before.there are many other ways in which girls loss their hymen and probably some borne without a hymen.no cause for alarm.so the best thing to do is to call her and ask her questions and no probably what must have being her own case of not having a hymen.
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reader, athenas  +, writes (11 June 2009):
Thats true about what pebbles is saying my cousing lost hers with a tampon i make fun of her telling her "u aint no virgin u lost it with a tampon" but she hasnt been with anyone so yeah theyre still virgins in that way.
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reader, pebble  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Virginity is not defined by whether or not you have a hymen. You can break a hymen doing exercises and using tampons. Some girls are born without a hymen at all. That doesn't mean they are not virgins.
The definition of virginity is that you have not had sex. Until a penis goes in, you are a virgin - regardless of whether you have a hymen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): It's all in your language. If hemorrhage of the hymen is "loss of virginity" then it can happen all sorts of ways. Ironically, it may NOT automatically happen during the first coitus.If coitus is "loss of virginity" then it can happen only during coitus.So choose your definition.Some poor girls from the middle-east and India are so afraid, they secretly have surgery for hymenoplasty to construct a "replacement" hymen so they will be acceptable to their husband on their wedding night. In some cultures, if the husband does not believe the bride is a virgin he can "return" her in shame to her family, ask for a far larger dowry, or in some extreme cases even kill her with no fear of prosecution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Some girls don't even have a hymen, so does that mean they are born nonvirgins?
No.
Loss of virginity is penis/vaginal intercourse.
~SY.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 It's possible that she lost her hymen by inserting something in there. I heard that some woman lost their hymen when horseback riding.
In my opinion, you only loose your virginity once you have vaginal sexual intercourse with a man. If she says she didn't, then she might have lost her hymen doing something else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): You can only literally lose your virginity by have penetrative sex. That means that the hymen breaks and you bleed a little. Some girls break their hymens due to physical activities such as horseback riding or bike riding.
She could also mean figuratively. Like she has had sex with a man before. Virginity could also mean never had penetrative sex before but had sexual relations such as oral sex or fondling. Or it could mean no sexual activity at all.
I think if you are marrying this girl, you should talk to her and ask her to explain what she means by "she has no virginity". If you break your hymen without having sex, you are still a virgin because you have never had sex before.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): yes there is such thing that happened, .. you are also getting married, just trust what she says, after all you/ll be getting married
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