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writes:hey i am 14 i have never had a boyfriend never been kissed i know i must sound like a proppa geek But i dont get it i get loads of attention from boys when i walk down the streets or when i am out with a group of freinds they shout somthing like "get your tits out" and if i get that why carnt i have a boyfreind arrghhh i just get soo annoyed all my frinds telling me what they have done n i am just there like " yeah i havent even kissed a boy let alone haveing sex " but all my freinds say i stunning, funny ,great personality but if that is true that why havent i had a boy freind? i have read it through n i snd rly big headed but i am not i just wanted to get the point accross to youthanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): huni i have experienced your situation first hand.
i had my first boyfriend and kiss at 17 desipte the fact that random people on street often told me how beautiful i looked and i was offered a modeling career by diesel at the age of 16..
generally speaking boy at that age dont like to do any hard work so they tend to go for the girls who seem to be more "easy" to get with
im sure you are as stunnin as they say just wait for your time xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you oo much guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): im 14 and beleive me when i say this , sriosuly most of your friends are probably lying about sex and dont be worried about not having a boyfriend they're prob scared to ask you out coz your pretty and i no this is cliche but someone out there will fancy you even if you dont know it and also if you dont look for love it will find you the right guy will come along and dontr worry about tit alot of girls and boys your age havent even kissed someone and some people who are ugly have boyfriends some of my friends who are so stunning havent gone out with anyone so dont worry and also boyfriends arent all they're cracked up to be its ahrd to find a nice guy and then you've got to be their shoulder to cry on (yes even guys get upset) sort all their problems out the paranoia tht he fancies someone else etc just stick woth your mates and have a good time dont waster these precious years of your life worrying about this you'll find someone
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Your only 14! what type of friends have you got that are having sex at 14? Also boys that shout, 'get your tits out' in the street are not something you should judge your attraction on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): You're fourteen, it's not uncoommon at your age! Also i doubt that you want to be seen going out with one of the guys who shouts GET YOUR TITS OUT on the street! That's just low
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I didnt get my first kiss until i was 16.
I can relate myself to you in that i get alot of attention from guys but just never seem to have a boyfriend.
I think the idea is to find someone who you really like then gradually build a friendship with them, but its harder than it sounds especially if you don't have classes with them etc. Thats why you need to make that little more effort with 'whoever of interest', get talking to him, text him, make plans with him out of school. Friendship is a strong base to a relationship, and the most successful relationships develop from friendship.
You can't just rely for love to find you, if you want it then search for it!
Good luck x
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Guys in their younger teens are VERY immature (generally speaking) they tend to grow up in their later teens. If you're more of a sophisticated kind of person and you're confident and smart, guys your age cuold see you as intimidating.
Trust me, having a boyfriend isn't that great when you're in your younger teens. They seem to always get you into trouble and they can influence your decisions that can affect you for the rest of your life.
I'm sure you've seen this with some of your friends, if you haven't you will. Don't worry, I don't think there's anything wrong with you and you're probably a stunning young lady. Just sit back and relax and be happy! :)
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reader, alexroliepolie  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Sweetie, believe me, you don't want a boyfriend at that age. Boys are difficult to deal with even when you think you've got them figured out. So, guys think you're attractive, but they don't ask you out... Maybe they're intimidated. I know many boys who don't talk to any certain girl because they think she's too hot to go for. Just relax and enjoy life. You've got it the best right now. If someone comes along and sees how awesome you are, great! :) If not, hit high school and they'll be begging for you.
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