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*ason361
writes:Dear Aunties,My girlfriend of 7 months and I had a good day today, we had sex 3 times, and then she goes home. About a few minutes ago, We started fighting because of the past. She has cheated on me 4 times, and 3 times it was nothing more then a kiss. Each time she was too drunk to walk. I love her to death, but she's certain that I'm gonna cheat on her. I left her once because I was torn between her and another girl i liked. This drove me buck wild and ended up confessing everything to her. I just wish she'd drop the past and love me like she used to :cShould I stay with her? Or Should I go? I will leave if nesscessary, she's very annoying and loves to pick at me, and I just shut up and take it
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Anyone who cheats will think the other will do it to them kind of like their gonna get their compuance. if she doesnt trust you thats her problem plus she has no right to judge since it was her who did wrong. if their is no trust their is no relationship. she will always be looking over her shoulder because she know you can do better than her because each time she gets drunk shell cheat by the looks of it and not to mention some men will take advantage she needs to sort herself out. as for you i dont really see this relationship will go far. your young to so you have your whole life ahead of you. but i think this relationship is working on hope and thats about it. perhaps its time you spread your wings and find a person who wont cheat on you and respects you alot more than your current gf. at the end of the day the choice is yours. good luck aphex xx
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reader, hijacked_dignity  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Sounds like that girl doesn't know how to handle her drink! Cutting the crap though, drinking is no excuse for cheating. I have drank several times and never cheated on my boyfriend. It's possible. Drinking is just an excuse at best, and it makes people feel less guilty for their CHOICES. Sounds like you did the right thing by leaving her before. The only problem being that you didn't stay away from her. The fighting and the lack of trust is enough to destroy a relationship (which ironically enough, relationships are supposed to be enjoyable). You need to stop basing your good days on the amount of sex you have and start seeing that her past has already done the damage necessary for a break up. The first time she cheated, you should have been gone. Because you know deep down that she isn't going to stop. Doesn't sound like she treats you right in the other areas either. Except sex. Which isn't really enough to stay around in the first place. Save yourself the headache and say good bye!
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