A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've recently started talked to a guy online. He goes to my university but I've never actually met him. We just have mutual friends. Anyways.. we talked all last weekend through messages on facebook. Just sorta 'getting to know you' stuff. He then asked for my number and said that texting or calling would be easier (since we were talking so much on facebook). Soo then I gave it to him and he texted me that evening. We talked for about an hour via text (not to mention all we said that day online). The next day I texted him first. We talked pretty much all day via text again. He also sort of flirted with me. So at this point I thought he was interested. Yesterday he didn't contact me at all and today is here and have heard nothing. I didn't really want to initiate a text since I texted first on Tuesday.. I am very interested but don't want to be pushy. What should I do?Is he interested? Or was he just friendly?
View related questions:
facebook, flirt, text, university Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Smellyellie +, writes (11 June 2009):
why not drop him a subtle text like.. Hey u k?? You bin up 2 anyfink over the last couple of days?
This way it will give him a chance to reply without you coming in too strong for him. He may have just been busy with uni work so I would wait another couple of days and then try it.. That way you definatly won't be coming on too strong.
From the way you have said about things he does seem very intersted hut maybe you should meet him also suggest going out for a cup of coffe at a local cafe where there are loads of people and stuff..
Let me know how it goes..
|