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writes:Can anyone give me any ideas or tips? My eyes have been on a guy for severl months now. The one night back at the club everytime he got out of his seat he would move it closer to me when he would sit back down. By the end of the night his whole right body was against mine. Two weeks later we are upstairs playing pool. Every time a game ended he came over and gave me a hug. Then we end our final game and I get one more hug. We don't pull away from one another and he starts rubbing my back, then runs his hand in my hair and gives me a kiss on the lips. Then he goes to kissing my neck and then back to giving me kisses on the lips. Even though I liked it and wanted to kiss him back, I froze. So when I stop he kissed he on the forehead and said talk to me whats wrong. So I told him its just all new to me because I've never been in a relationship before and im going to have to get use to this. I'm a shy person to begin with I always have been. Now I can't get a hold of him to talk to him about what happened and what I'm feeling. He won't return my calls. So was I in the wrong for stopping?
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reader, clintDISryl  +, writes (11 June 2009):
You were certainly not in the wrong. First of all you dont know whether hes "not returning your calls" or if by chance he hasnt got them yet, just wait a little while, just when you have feelings for someone paranoia does set in and you always assume the worst. If it is true then he is probably a bit of an idiot because it sounds like he just wanted to do "physical stuff" with you and saying you wanted to take things slow. Ok it depends what you want from a relationship, if you just want to have foreplay and sex with a hot guy then yeah you should have just gone with it, if you want a real relationship and someone who you could love then you did the right thing. No guy who just wants you for your body is worth dating :)
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