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writes:Theres this guy i dated three years ago and we started talking again this year at first all he talked about is hooking up with me but im only 14. He wants to get back together and he said when he talked about hooking up b4 now to this day he said were alot mature now but its only been like a month. He said to me recently that if i wanted to he would make out with me im nso confused on what i should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni did but he keeps iming me i dont know what to do anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Delete him from instant messenger
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe does have my number but we talk on aim he always im's me and im about to shut say i give up and go with him....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Say no and block his number on your phone
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers hes trying to make me feal special but its not really working he keeps trying to get with me and im about to break wat do i do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Don't go with him.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Well judging by the way you posed this question, it sounds like you are kind of uncomfortable with the idea. And seeing as you are fourteen, I would understand why. This guy came onto you a little strong, didn't he? From my personal experience, I would say that being with this guy is a big no. You should be with someone that actually respects you and treats you more than something to have sex with. Maybe when you are a little bit older too, because the stress associated with hooking up can be a lot. At least in a couple years, you'll have the resources and guidance to help you with such situations. There is a lot to consider too, like pregnancy and STD's...this guy sounds like a hoe, so I wouldn't be surprised if he has something. And let me tell you something, boys do not get more mature in just a month. Let's say years is how long some boys take to make that step, and some never become mature. So as far as this guy goes? I would say a big fat no. He sounds like trouble.
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