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*asden
writes:I recently talked to my ex on facebook and she showed me a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. Why did she do that ? It's not necessary and she knew it all along that would hurt me. I'm over her I think but I'm jealous that she has a new boyfriend but I'm still single and she's pround of it too... Now I'm jealous but I can find a new girlfriend if I'm not too shy to approach girls. By the way what kind of feelings is this ? Why am I jealous ? and Why is she doing this too me ?I want to punch her so badly. If I'm not looking for brunette I might have new girlfriend now but I like brunette so that's why I don't have new girlfriend yet.P.S I'm pissed and jealous
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reader, Hasden +, writes (13 June 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey !
Thank you all, I don't love her anymore but what she did made me very upset. I don't want her back but I just want to be her friend, that's it.
P.S She's brunette too but I'm not really that picky I just like because of no reason, it just what my body tells lol... ^^
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 She is trying to make you jealous my lad. You need to play it cool and not react to these things. The best thing to do is try not to have any or as minimal contact with her at all and she will soon come running. Believe me. Maybe if you are finding a gf then you shouldnt be so picky there are plenty of nice girls out there with diffrent coloured hair and although many people stereotype blondes for being stupid they really arent. Us brunettes can be just as bad. i hope this helped and try not to react to this girl she is obviously still in love with you but is too involved with this other boy and this is the only way she can make you jealous.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 You're understandably upset. Don't let her get to you, really.. she's just doing it to get you going. She probably isn't super happy in her new relationship and craves that attention that you used to give her.
Take your time when looking for a new lady, and don't limit yourself to only brunettes. Hair colour shouldn't be of concern when someone is a great person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Well you know the answers to your own questions. She is trying to make you jealous because she can. It doesn't mean anything except that you feel competitive with her. Finding a girlfriend is not a competition and you don't have to have a girlfriend to be happy with yourself.
Just get over it, don't let her push your buttons. One way to do that is to stop talking to her or looking at her social web pages...simple.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (11 June 2009):
 she wants you to want her and know you cannot have her. to make yourself happy cease contact as this girl is a tease...
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