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writes:i went out with this lad for a couple of dates, never saw him for a couple of weeks but saw him at weekend. I was shaking thinking hes really fit but not sure if he knows that i like him. Should i send him an anonymous valentines card or not?Any advice would be greatly appreciated.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): It's sweet, but a pretty risky strategy sending an anonymous card. What if he knows a few women who like him - what if he doesn't know it's from you?!
I think you are old enough to send a card with your name on it. If he bites, great - if not at least you made it clear you liked him enough to spend 3.50 on a card
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 I think you should send him a direct message. This way, if he likes you, he will approach you. If not, you're free to move on.
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reader, kenny +, writes (12 February 2009):
 I think if you really like this guy then sand him a valentines card, however i would give some sort of clue somewhere in there thats its from you. The reason i say this is because it may prompt him to get back in touch and arrange another date. Where as if you remain anonymous he will not know if its you, someone who lives down the road, or someone he works with. I know the idea of valentines is to remain anonymous, but i think in this case you should leave a small clue.
I hope it goes well for you x
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