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Why do I feel still insecure?

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Question - (12 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I broke up with my ex last year, a good friend of mines helped me through it, now we have become more than friends, in fact you could say weve taken it a stage further, I stay at his place a couple of nights a week, we get on well, he is older than me, we share the same interests, I have my own keys to his place and come and go as I please, he is such a lovely man and thinks the world of me like I do him but there are times I feel that I am in the way and sometimes I wonder if he regrets how our relationship is.

I have asked him about this and he tells me not to be daft, why do I sometimes feel insecure? I'm not a teenager but a mature woman in my 40s. He has been single for about 2 years before we got together, he will help anyone, not many people know about our relationship that is how we want it at the moment, could I feel this way because of the way my last relationship ended? Any advice will be welcome thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009):

The first thing caught my mind were the two of you lives together at times. I'm not try to judge 'but the word of God teach us to pray' lead us not into temptation but deliver from evil. Thats means do not let us be tested so that we fall into sin. The reason i'm telling you this is I made that same mistake' and sooner or later sex come in the picture. And we know what the bible teach on that its a SIN. Please read (Isaiah 59-1,2) See when we do not obay GOD word their is a price to pay. I believe if you do things the right way you will be alright.

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