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41-50,
*sdumpedme
writes:How will I know that our relationship is over?We've been together for 8 years now 2 years ago I left the country to work broad next year is our plan to get married. Little by little I feel like he doesn't sound interesting in listening to my stories. I do the same thing. He opened up and told me he is starting to fall to a girl. As a woman with pride I told him if you will get yourself involved with that girl that means the end of our relationship. But then again 2 months ago he broke up and told me that he is now with the girl and trying to blame me that it was my fault that I pushed him away. How could that be? That is a test in our relationship and trust that he wasn't able to hold strongly and now his pointing everything to me. The reason why I am working here is because of your future and we agreed to do it together but then he just left me hanging. Tell me what are the things I need to do. But still I am hoping to mend and save this relationship. I even told her sister that I am willing to accept everything and willing to start all over. I am looking and waiting still for him to come back.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 i say let it go. Its not meant to be. If he really really love you then he would have waited and no other woman would have stood in the way. If you change your life around and will do anything for him, he will know this and have an upper hand in the relationship. As hard as it is, one day you will see that this is not the right man for you. You think he is now because you've been together so long and you don't know any different. But with every heartbreak comes a new opportunity. And I believe there is a better man out there waiting for you. It's hard to believe but you have to know if a man finds another woman then turn around and blame it on you. He is manipulating the situation. Don't let him get away with it. Let him be with that girl, and you walk away with your pride and dignity.
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